Let’s face it; getting remarried on the down-low is no longer necessary. You can celebrate love the second (or third, or fourth) time around however you’d like, as long as you keep it tasteful.
The main thing to remember when you get remarried is to keep everyone involved. If you’ll be merging families, it’s important that everyone get to know one another and understand that this marriage is a celebration of two people who found each other after a death or a failed relationship. There is cause to celebrate, but it is also necessary to tread lightly in order to get everyone used to the idea.
You may not want to have a large scale event for a remarriage; a tasteful, elegant affair can include a simple ceremony, along with a reception that makes everyone feel comfortable. A well-edited guest list is crucial, along with a venue that everyone will have a good time at. Gauge the mood of your guest when you choose the location for your reception. Maybe a favorite restaurant or a party at the home of a loved one or close friend.
As for your attire, a traditional wedding dress may not be appropriate, but that doesn’t mean you can’t look amazing. Choose an elegant suit or gown that fits the mood, or maybe a sophisticated cocktail dress. There are many choices that can make you feel as special as a first-time bride, even though you won’t look like one.
If you’re feeling awkward about planning a second wedding, don’t. You are entitled to the happiness and joy that comes with finding the right person to spend your life with, even though it didn’t work out the first time. Hold your head up high, say your vows proudly and invite all your loved ones to celebrate your new-found happiness!
Gal Harat is an Engagement Ring and especially Solitaire Engagement Ring expert who writes for many well known bridal and fashion magazines. His contributions can also be found on many lifestyle Web sites and blogs.